Recently I got a forwarded email from friends entitled "Great Love … pay attention ladies". I liked on how the author described the kind of man that every woman deserves. I’d like to share those thoughts with you with my own thoughts as well…
I’d like to find a guy who …
… calls me beautiful instead of hot - and meaning it as well & not just sheer words ( it makes me feel more special because I’m not just thought of as a sexual object of affection but someone that adds inspiration to him)
… who calls you back when you hang up on him (i may be a 21st century girl who doesn’t care if the guy calls or not after i hang up on him but it would nice once in awhile to have him woo me when i get mad. although i don’t want a clingy guy or a guy without any principle and backbone but it makes it seem that he really cares and wouldn’t want to destroy that trust i’ve given him)
… who will stay awake just to watch you sleep (oh boy! this is somewhat scary and romantic at the same time. it could be scary cos he might be too obssessed and if ever you did something wrong he might kill you or he could be copying you -> oh no! he’s gay! but the romantic part is that he would want to protect you even if it meant sacrificing his sleep. he is contented knowing that you’re safe with him)
… wait for the guy who kisses your forehead ( oh talk about grandmother or mum! hehehe… but still it’s sweet to know he cares for you delicately and like a fragile child he will protect and be always there for you)
… who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats (this is a tough one. why would i want to be shown off to the world when i’m in sweats? well, that would be a problem with me because i don’t want to show my physical self to a guy when i’m not properly dressed. i always see to it that i look good for my man. but sometimes it gets too tedious that it tires me to have myself made up. i don’t know. i have yet to find a guy that i love who thinks i’m sexy and beautiful inside and out. maybe he isn’t born yet…)
… who holds your hand infront of his friends (that would be great! this means that he isn’t ashamed of being lovey-dovey with you even if he gets constant teasing from his friends. he is proud to be your man no matter what his posse may say)
…wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you (this ones great as well but i’m not the kind of girl who gets to be lovey dovey all the time. constant reminders like this makes a girl really feel special and wanted and loved. i just don’t want it to be the center of all the conversations. but a guy should think of creative ways in saying this.Like make a poem. Sing a song. Cook me a meal. There are a lot ore ways to mention. )
…wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "…that’s her"… ( well this depends on what he is referring you to. he might be refering to you as "that’s her my one night stand" or "that’s her my bitch". it should be clear that he tells his friends that yeah that’s her the girl who stole my heart — cheesy yet still romantic. he isn’t afraid to be cheesy around his friends and be proud of you.
I know it is hard to find a guy like this these days. If there is, it is someone whom I don’t like or whom I don’t feel the same affection for or the same level of admiration for. But I hope I find him whereever he is and he finds me but until then I’ll just wait for the right respondent to my heart’s classified ad to come along. any applicants? hehehe.
